Where genuine singles meet face-to-face across Worcestershire, Birmingham and the Heart of England
Are you over 40 and tired of swiping left and right on endless fake profiles?
You’re not alone.
Affinity Club was created for singles who want real-life connections – not another dating app.
We host singles events across Worcestershire, Birmingham, and the wider Heart of England, giving you the chance to meet new people in a fun, friendly environment.
Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or simply a great night out, you’ll always know that everyone at our events is single too.
For just £14.95 per month, you’ll enjoy:
✅ Free entry to all our “No App, Just Chat” socials (worth £5 online or £7.50 on the door). With 2–3 events each month, your membership more than pays for itself.
✅ A warm, welcoming community for singles 40+ who are ready to socialise, laugh, and make connections — without pressure.
✅ A members badge so you can instantly spot fellow members and see who’s new at events.
✅ Access to the Members Hub where you’ll find:
Event listings and PROMO codes
Blogs, tips, and dating advice
A few of our members who have chosen to be online (but not everyone — most prefer to meet face-to-face)
Future resources including hypnosis recordings for confidence, and dating tips to help you shine
✅ Discounts on exclusive events, such as crazy golf nights, Christmas parties, Valentine’s socials, and more.
Step 1: Sign up
Step 2: Complete a short welcome form so we can review your profile
Step 3: You’ll be invited to the Members Hub — where you’ll find event listings, PROMO codes, blogs, and resources.
Step 4:Check out the events, book online, and we’ll look forward to seeing you there! (The hub is just a bonus — most of our members prefer the old-fashioned way of meeting face-to-face at events).
"After coaching hundreds of singles and watching them lose confidence on dating apps, I knew there had to be a better way. I’ve seen clients cry over ghosting, waste time on fake profiles, and feel more alone than ever.
That’s why I created Affinity — to bring together real people in a space where community matters. Whether you’re looking for love, laughter, or just someone to walk the dog with — you belong here." Jacquie Eaton. Love Guru and creator of Affinity Club
🌸 “I’ve been separated for two years and spent every minute wondering what my ex was doing, checking his social media and going round in circles. Since working with Jacquie, I feel more confident and ready to meet someone new. I can’t wait to join a community that’s all about real people, not fake profiles.” — S, 49
🌼 “I’ve always been happy single, but the idea of joining a community where people like the same things I do just feels so exciting. I’m really looking forward to meeting like-minded singles and maybe even going to some events.” — L, 56
🍷 “There’s not much chance of meeting someone new without dating apps, and even then, most people ghost you before you even get on a date. I’m looking forward to a new way of connecting — something more natural than just heading down the local with my mates.” — M, 62
🎯 “Dating apps are so frustrating — you have to click into every profile to find someone interesting, and then most people have ticked every box just to get attention. I love the idea of joining groups, finding people through shared interests, and then seeing if there's a spark.” — A, 51
🎉 “I love going out and meeting new people, but sometimes it’s hard to find someone to go with. I’m really excited to see what events get added and love that you can even post your own! What a great way to meet people without missing out on the things you love.” — R, 58
💬 “It’s actually really lonely being single. I see events come up on Facebook and want to go, but never have anyone to go with. I hate online dating apps — this looks like a great way to meet new people and hopefully find a group of other singles in my area to go to events with.” — J, 64
🏰 “I love visiting castles and historical places and would really like to meet someone like-minded. But when I’ve used dating apps, it’s so time-consuming checking every profile to see if we have anything in common. I love the idea of joining a group and meeting people through shared interests, without wasting time on profiles that might not even be real.” — E, 60
What makes Affinity different?
Unlike younger dating apps or “swipe” events, Affinity Club is all about connection, conversation, and community.
No endless scrolling.
No fake profiles.
No pressure to “find the one” straight away.
Instead, you’ll meet like-minded singles over 40 in a safe, relaxed environment where friendship comes first and chemistry can naturally grow.
Is this a dating app?
Not at all. Affinity is a growing singles community built around genuine face-to-face connection. The hub is simply an added bonus — where you can check out events, read blogs, grab promo codes, and (if you choose) connect with some of the members online. Many prefer the old-fashioned way of meeting in person, and that’s exactly what Affinity is all about.
Do I have to come to events?
Not at all. Affinity has been designed to give everyone a chance to meet others — whether that’s connecting with members in the hub or attending events in person. The choice is always yours. But if you do come along to the events, just imagine the opportunities: you’ll meet not only fellow members, but also new faces who are dipping their toes in the water for the first time.
Will there be people near me?
Yes! We’re already running No App, Just Chat events across the Heart of England — including Worcestershire, Bromyard, Stratford-upon-Avon, Birmingham, and Bewdley — and we’re continuing to add new venues in this area. That means you’ll be meeting singles from your local community both online and face-to-face. As Affinity grows, we’ll expand further into Warwickshire, Herefordshire, and Gloucestershire — building a genuine network of singles who want connection, not swiping. 💛
Affinity Club is a private singles community aged 40, 50 and 60+ in Worcestershire and the Heart of England.
Whether you’re newly single or just tired of dating apps, this is a safe and supportive space to meet like-minded people and start your next chapter.